Point 1: stalking

I am not particularly mysterious or interesting, but the fact that I am not willing to put my face all over social media and the internet makes me seem more mysterious and interesting than I am.

It’s a simple engagement strategy that has existed for thousands of years, (long before people coined phrases like ‘engagement strategies’): the less you give people the more they want, the less you say the more they want to listen, the less you look at them the more they demand attention.

I however, was not trying to use this engagement strategy, it’s just something I started doing as an escort when, having decided that I was not going to give anything of my personality on top of my body, I would talk very little about myself. I also, in general, find conversation is often a rope with which to hang onerself, and I much prefer to allow other people to hang themselves… and watch them slowly choke.

This, I found, was a guaranteed pathway to client obsession. Men saw me as mysterious and interesting, despite the fact – as I already said – I’m not.

Anyway, I thought that was just a real life thing, but I soon discovered when I started working online (in the pandemic) that there’s a similar effect. It seemed the less I gave of myself online the more online stalkers I got.

The tricks and deception (and quite frankly in some cases, hundreds of hours of labor), that went into stalking me was a revelation. Admittedly, after having been stalked in real life, it’s not quite so scary but It is still scary nonetheless.

That’s why, in this very long winded intro to the legal section of this website ( Yes, I know I said I didn’t like talking much, but this is writing and I like writing) I state the following.

After an initial period of naivety, I learned my lesson. Therefore…

None of this website, services contracted, email addresses, absolutely nothing is registered in my name, my country, not even my continent. Therefore, any stalker needs to know that they will be completely wasting their time engaging in any of the activities they previously used to try to contact me outside of this website.

2. refunds

Sometimes people get a bit enthusiastic and buy this course using a partner or parents credit card (yes, it’s happened) then (I presume – after they’ve relieved their balls of the majority of their sperm holding capacity) they realise what they’ve done and panic.

Don’t panic: just contact the admin email and you can be refunded very quickly. If we dosn’t answer immediately, then don’t lose your **** and start doing crazy things like telling your bank that someone stole your credit card or opening disputes in PayPal. Both of these cause me problems and are entirely unnecessary.

3. DMCA

Sometimes, fans of my books create content which makes it seem like I created it. I didn’t. I also have a student blog for students of pretty INC and other collaborators who have the ability to upload media. If you are the copyright owner of any such content then contact [email protected] and I will organise a speedy and definitive removal.